I’m a mom to two boys and a stepdaughter, and when my marriage ended a decade ago, my ex and I agreed our kids would never be in the crossfire. We kept holidays and birthdays shared, chose homes minutes apart, and treated each other with respect. Guided by my values as a counselor and parent, I focused on repair, integrity, and keeping my kids’ needs first. It’s not easy, but with intention and help, it’s absolutely doable.