✅ Communication Do's
💬 Validate your child's experiences: "That sounds like a fun time with Dad/Mom!"📱 Keep communication channels open: Use approved co-parenting apps like OurFamilyWizard for consistent messaging.
🤝 Maintain professional boundaries: Follow guidelines from the AFCC for cooperative co-parenting.
🧡 Encourage positive relationships: Support your child's connection with extended family on both sides.
🌟 Behavioral Do's
🙌 Model respectful behavior: Children learn conflict resolution from watching their parents.⏱ Maintain consistent routines: Follow agreed-upon schedules and transitions.
🩺 Seek professional help: Work with qualified family therapists through AAMFT when needed.
🗂 Document appropriately: Keep records of agreements and communications through proper channels.
🚫 What to Avoid
📵 Don't use children as messengers: The American Academy of Pediatrics identifies this as harmful to child development.⚖️ Don't discuss legal matters: Keep court proceedings and financial discussions between adults.
🔍 Don't make assumptions: Verify information through proper channels instead of through children.
🛑 Don't criticize: Avoid negative comments about the other parent or their family.
📝 Wrap-Up Teaching Points
🎁 Supporting your child's relationship with their other parent is a gift to your child, not a concession to your ex.🌱 Small, everyday moments often have the biggest impact on preventing alienation.
💖 Children thrive when they feel free to love both parents without guilt or conflict.
🛡 Your child's emotional security is worth the effort of managing your own triggers and responses.
📚 Remember: According to the Family Court Review (Fidler & Bala, 2020), consistent adherence to these guidelines significantly reduces the risk of parental alienation and supports healthy child development.
📌 Support Resources
- Child Welfare Information Gateway – Access to family support services and educational materials.
- DivorceCare – Support groups and resources for families in transition.