Divorce may split households, but it doesn’t have to break the idea of family. This module challenges the myth that a strong family only exists under one roof and offers simple, compassionate ways to stay connected across two homes.
If you don’t shape what comes next, the chaos will. Vision isn’t about perfection, it’s about direction, and your kids need that now. We’ll help you spot helpful and harmful patterns, then create habits, rituals, and routines that bring stability and identity.
Palmer will share what it felt like when no one was steering the ship and how that experience became a turning point.
You don’t have to have it all figured out, but you do have to start. Here, we begin with the belief that your redefined family can still be strong, loving, and whole.
Learning Objectives
After completing this lesson, you'll be able to:
- Create a meaningful vision for your redefined family.
- Identify core family values.
- Develop strategies for maintaining cohesion across homes.
- Build confidence in leading your family through transition.
💔 Key Concepts:
- Divorce is the storm, vision is the rudder
- The danger of drifting
- Vision gives stability
- It’s not about perfection
→ When divorce disrupts routines and stability, families without a clear direction risk being tossed by guilt, exhaustion, or outside influences that don’t have kids’ best interests at heart.
→ Without intentional leadership, schedules, communication, relationships, and even kids’ identities begin to unravel. Children may not complain, but they feel the impact first.
→ Creating a shared vision for your family anchors kids in values, strengths, and consistent practices that guide them through uncertainty.
→ You don’t need flawless parenting, you need intentionality. Even if things have been chaotic, it’s never too late to take the wheel and set a healthier course.
🧭 Bottom Line:
In the chaos of divorce, your family needs direction. A clear vision acts like a rudder, keeping everyone steady and anchored in values that protect kids from drifting into guilt, resentment, or silence. Steering with intention can transform instability into resilience.