✅ Vision-Building Do’s
- Maintain open communication about your family vision with your children—share in ways that fit their age and understanding.
- Celebrate small wins and moments of connection, even during challenging transitions.
- Stay flexible—let your vision evolve as your family’s needs change.
- Create consistent routines that work across both households.
- Acknowledge and validate your children’s feelings about the changes.
🚫 Vision-Building Don’ts
- Don’t try to recreate your old family dynamic—embrace the opportunity to build something new.
- Don’t let guilt drive your decisions—focus on what truly serves your children’s wellbeing.
- Don’t compare your family’s journey to others—every redefined family has its own path.
- Don’t expect perfection—aim for progress over perfection.
- Don’t neglect self-care—your wellbeing is crucial to implementing your vision.
💡 Quick Reference:- Does this choice support our family’s connection?
- Am I acting from intention or reaction?
- Will this help my children feel secure and valued?